03 May, 2026
6 mins read

The Heartbeat Outside My Chest: On Motherhood’s Messy, Magnificent Work

We like to put motherhood in a box. We wrap it in pastel paper and tie it up with a cliché about unconditional love. We offer it up as the ultimate fulfillment of womanhood, a destination arrived at the moment a child is placed in your arms. But the truth is so much messier, more […]

11 mins read

The Price of Silence: How Women Can Inherit Trauma They Didn’t Create

Silence is often celebrated in African families as a symbol of dignity, restraint, and respectability. But silence also has a darker side. It is in silence that abuse festers, secrets calcify, and wounds are passed from one generation to the next. What remains unsaid between mothers and daughters does not disappear; it lingers in the […]